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Kya aapne ye kahawat suni hai? – “ Aap kya kehte hain ye important nahin par aap kaise kehte hain zaada important hai”. Jab aap chahte hain ki aapke teachers, apke friends, parents aur seniors aapki baat sune to apni aawaz se unka dhyan apni taraf kheechein aur apni baat untak pahuchaiye. Kyunki hum humans words ke sound ko pehle sunte hain aur baad mein word ko. Aap apni baat ko kehne ke liye chilla bhi nahi sakte kyunki ye to disrespectful hoga. Apni aawaz ko kaise project aur modulate karna seekhein aur good impression banayein. Nahin to person instantly interest lose kar deta hai aur aap ki baat ka koi matlab nahin reh jata hai. Personality Development mein hum ise ‘Tone of Voice’ kehte hain aur yeh ek important aspect hai effective communication ka. Chalye jante hain hum apni aawaz ko kaise asardar bana sakte hain.

Zaadatar logon ko ye nahin pata hota ki unki aawaza kaisi hai. To chalye start karein. Pehle pata karein ki aap kaise bolte hain aur aap ki aawaz kaisi sunai deti hai. Apni aawaz ko record karein jaise ki aap kisi se phone par baat kar rahe hon. Aur describe karein aap ki aawaz kaisi sound kar rahi hai.

• Casual/Dull/Shy/Nervous/Apologetic/Weak
• Agar aap ki awaaz uppar mein se kisi bhi tarah ki lag rahi hai to aap ko ise improve karna padega. Kyunki ‘A’ ho sakta hai aap aisa hi feel bhi kar rahe honge. ‘B’ kyunki aap low sound kareinge to doosre person par bhi iska asar hoga.
• Sochein agar aap happy sound kareinge to to aapke charon taraf happiness project hogi.
• Aur aap ko log interest se sunege.

Tone of Voice ke Parts

Jab aap apni aawaz ke in 4 parts per work karte hain to aap ki aawaz change hone lagti hai. pleasing sound ke liye aap ko in 4 parts par work karna parega.

1. Speed

• Aap kitna dheere aur kitna tez bolte hain?
• Jab aap tez bolte hain to doorson ko samajhne mein pareshani hoti hai ki aap kya bolna chahte hain.
• Dheere bolne se conversation bahut lambi khichti hai air listener apna attention kho deta hai.

2- Pitch

• Aap kitna uncha ya halke bolte hain?
• High pitch wali aawaz bahut harsh lagti hai.
• Low pitch wali aawaz sunne mein bahut dikkat aati hai.

3- Pause

• Jab baghair pause liye bolte hain to idea apas mein mix ho jata hai aur message ko samajhne mein problem hoti hai.
• Aur bahut saare pause hone par information ko ek saath samajhne mein problem hoti hai.

4- Word Stress

• Agar aap ek tone mein bolte hain aur kisi word par stress nahin hota to aapke sentences ‘lifeless’ (bejaan) ho jate hain.
• Important Words par emphasis dalein.
• Isse aapke messahe mein energy aur excitement ayega.

Aapko Ye karna Padega

Book ko tez aawaz mein parhein aur words mein energy dalein. Novel theek hai.

• Jab character happy ho to aap happy sound karein.
• Jab situation sab hoto sad
• Change karte rahein . Pehle fast phir slow…high phir low…pause aur words par stress daal ke parhein.
• Listen unka matlab kaise badal raha hai jaise jaise aap changes kar rahe hain.
• Ek quick senctence ko try karein- “ Hi, wow what great shoes you are wearing. Where did you buy it from?”
• Is sentence ko sad tone mein kehne par saara excitement chala jata hai. 🙂

Apni recording sune ( apne phone ka microphone use kar sakte hain) aur change karein jo bhi aapko achchha nahin lagta. Control karein apni voice ko. Ye ek bahut powerful skill hai.

Until next time
Jasmine

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