Apne Aapko Failure Ki Feeling Se Kaise Nikalein

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Apne Aapko Failure Ki Feeling Se Kaise Nikalein

Apne Aapko Failure Ki Feeling Se Kaise Nikalein

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Apne Aapko Failure Ki Feeling Se Kaise Nikalein – Jab aapse koi important kaam khraab ko jata hai to aap toot jaate hain. Aapko lagta hai ki aapki poori life usi kaam par depend karti thi. Aur kyunki aapki family aur friends aapko successful dekhna chahte hain to iss cheez ka bhi pressure aapke uppar hota hai. Lakin life itni aasaan nahin jaisi hum chahte hain aur hum sab ko kabhi na kabhi failure ka saamna karna pardta hi hai. Mujhe pata hai ye bahut badi baat hai, aap final exams mein fail ho gaye, aapka career kharaab ho gaya ya phir aapka pyaar aapse door hogaya. Aur bhi bahut wajahein hoti hain. Lakin bahut saare log inn sab failures aur pareshaniyon se nikal paate hain inn tareekon ka istemaal karke. Inhein apnayein jab tak aapko sukoon nan mile aur aap apni success na mile.

Failure Ko Apne Liye Achchha Samjhein

Poore time aap yahi sochte hain ki failure ki wajah se aap katam ho gaye. Par zara dubaara sochiye failure aapke liye achchha bhi to ho sakta hai. Ab aapke din, hafte , mahine aur saal barbaad nahin honge. Kyuki aap sab face kar chuke hain to ab aap samajhne lage hain sab kuchh. Achchhi khabar ye hai ki ab aapko maloom hai ki kya ghalat hua hai aur aap usko sahi kar sakte hain.

How to Stop Feeling Like a Failure

Failure Ko Apne Aap Par Haavi Na Hone Dein

Aap fail ho gaye hain iska matlab ye nahin ki aap failure hain. Kyun ki, Sab pehle ki har person ko apne kaam mein failure expect karni chahiye, ye to natural cheez hai, aapki life aur koi bhi person perfect nahin ho sakta. Hum sab apni naakamiyon ko chhupate hain  , humein unhein admit karna chahiye tabhi aap unse bahar nikal paayeinge. Doosra ye ki, Hum sab insaan hain aur ghalitiyan sabse hoti hain aap akele nahin hain. Aur teesra, ye sirf aapki life ka sirf ek event hai isko lekar aap apni poori zindagi nahin kharaab kar sakte. Aap isse nikaliye aur is eek ltepping stone banake apne goal ko paayein.

Failure Se Seekhein Aur Aage Badhein

Apne saare emotions ko kinaare karein thodi derke liye, ghussa khatam karei, afsos aur sharmidagi ki wajah se aap sahi soch nahin paa rahe hain. Thoda calm h jayein. Ab aap sahi condition mein hain ki dekh paayein ki aakhir kya ghalat hua. Sochein ki aap kya different kar sakte the. Aur kuchh cases mein ye bhi pinpoint karein ki kaun si cheezein aapke control mein nahin thi. Clear mind se aap apni strategies bana sakte hain ki aapka agla option kya hain aur aapko kaun se steps lene hain. Ab aapne worked out kar liya hai to phir aap relax eel kareige aur aapko mehsoos hoga ki ye intna bura nahin tha jitna aap shuru mein soch rahe the. 🙂

How to Stop Feeling Like a Failure

Positve Rahein Aur Failure Se Baahar Nikalein

Bahut aasaan hai ki hum apni nakamyabi ki wajah se toot jayein kyunki hum par bahut pressure hota hai. Bahut dino tak depression aur phir tabyat kharaab hona uski wajah se. Par kya se sab worry, preshan hona aapko kisi tarah help karta hai inn problem ko face karne mein. Isse aapko koi faiyda nahin balki cheezon ko aur kharaab karta hai. Agar aap kisi gaddhe mein gir jaayein to aap kya karoge. Usse nikalne ki koshish na ki aap aur gehre gaddhe mein apne aapko gira doge. Apne aap se kahein ki mujhe isse bahar nikana hai. Iss zara se motivation se aap apne aapko sambhal paayenge aur isse nikal paayenge.

Doosron Ke Kehne Par Mat Jaayein

Humare uppar bahut pressure hota hai kyunki humse pyar karne waale friends aur family humein judge karti hain. Aap unko blame nahin kar sakte kyunki woh to aapko successful dekna chahate hain. aap kuchh nahin kar sakte ise accept kriye ki woh aapke friends aur family hain aur wahi raheinge. Who kya kehte hain aap usko control nahin kar sakte. Lakin aap inn pressure situation ko control kar sakte hain. Aap apni life khud ji sakte hain hain, apne aapko busy rakh kar aur apne goals ko paa kar chahe jitney path kyun na badalne padein.

How to Stop Feeling Like a Failure

Dubaara Try Karein

Path one, path50 path 100, sabhi successful log aapko yahi batayeinge ki unko success kayi failures ke baad mili. Steve Jobs( Apple ke CEO) ne millions kamaye apne iphone aur ipad se, lakin unhone bhi failures ka saamna kara. Lakin bina inn failures ke unhein ye success nahin milti. Bahut saare logon ko failures milte hain aur woh apne aapko push karte hain aage badhne ke liye. Yahi himmat jo aapko lagatar aage badhati hai sabse zaada important hai.
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Until next time.
Jasmine

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